All these societal rules imposed on us about how we SHOULD behave and how we SHOULD think - enforced over and over again by those living within the society. Enforced by their judgments, fear and lack of understanding of WHY the person would break said rules.
The reason(s) someone rebels or breaks rules is because they are lacking fulfillment or because they are protecting others. And I don't think correcting either of those things is wrong.
Is fulfillment and total happiness something we should suppress? Be ashamed of? Is protecting someone wrong? The hurt feelings of associates comes from dishonesty. The dishonesty comes from fear of judgment and persecution by the system and those in it. Heinous crimes/cheating/lies are really a need to fulfill something deeper - like a need for love or acceptance, among other things - and if we are provided those things, then there is no need to rebel or lie.
But instead of loving and accepting unconditionally, we judge and laugh at from the outside, without having the whole story which leaves little trust by the individual to open up and ask for what they really need. And the cycle continues - because society has us trained/controlled well.
Keep them dissonant. Keep them fearful. Convince them that different is wrong. Do these things and we won't have to control them, they will control each other.
